My Friends

Have you seriously thought through, how many friends you’ve made in life?

Who are those that you always turn to whenever you need someone, who you really considered as “Friend”?

To me, it takes a lot to be considered my friend.

I do not take to frivolous friendship; some places makes for a lot of such similarly minded friends.

I term such relationships as proximate friendships.

Proximate friends can be found in places where you happen to be together and experiencing the same things at the same time.

Work perhaps. Short courses and even that gym workout you do every week;

remember who you saw without fail every week?

You are not aware but actually, you and him / her are proximate friends already. is but a short 2.5 years,

How do I make friends you ask?

I have friends, friends I have known for more than 5 years, friends I have chosen – to be in my small circle of friends.

oh yeah, just caught The Blind side during wkends, and god it feels righteous in so many ways. your typically old-style story that is high on hope, low on cynicism and long on heart.

no fuss, no tall tales, no gimmick.

it was an instant hit for me and certainly no surpise why Bullock nailed it with a Golden Globe. way to go!

..Slumber Party..

so much so that i wanted to make it a private affairs, Hence, guest are limited. guest that i've extended my invitation to in FB are not confirmed. finalized name list to be advised. :) (or might not even have any guest) only my close darlings! (you know who you are) :p

the simplest joy im missing..

As i grow older, one of my guilty pleasures is to do absolutely nothing.

the feeling of knowing that you have nothing planned for the day suddenly became gratifying.

if there was anything i missed the most,

it would have been waking up to nothingness and inactivity. days of sipping over-sized lattes with my fav frothy topping and caramel sauce while enjoying my read, the slowing down of almost everything, taking stock of what you have been given and to develop a certain little underrated characteristic known as joy. Or rather lasting joy.

and for now, it’s back to work.

all the way from Indo..

Yummmilious...

can you smell...

the weekends... Yayyyyyy!!

slurping pictures. I think I am getting a sugar rush just by looking at these pictures, heart attack inducing dessert. i was telling my lovelies that "Life is too short to be counting calories and we all deserve a good treat. So, go on, indulge yourself this week!"

to where i live..

No, no, this is not about telling you how much I love where I’m living. here are some jolly good reasons why, spoken from a girl who really didn’t find a valid reason to fancy where she live in.

Love under the Sunlight: This is the place where it’s sunny almost all year round and I’m not complaining. Maybe you’ll like to call it warm, whatever and whichever way works for you. It feels good to know that any drappy piece of cloth can become a fashion statement or used as an acceptable excuse to bare more in this climate of ours. My point really is, there’s something cheery (and cherry) & positive about having sunlight all the time! and it is also good to know that you can just stick to a range of skincare for all year round. (though sometimes I do envy the west planet peoples who has winter, snowman for x’mas and adore the thick clothing fashions as well)

Let’s meet tonight Darling! : I love the fact that charting to and fro to meet anyone doesn’t go beyond 3 hours (and that’s an exaggerated figure itself already), which really makes traveling much less a pain in the ass (not like any other countries). We have a fairly maintainable and efficient transport system that we can rely on. By this, I give all you guys out there no chance for dishing out reasons for not sending your girlfriends home!

Food: I am not a seasoned or deserving traveler but what I’ve come to realise with regards to the concept of food courts, it really amazes me. This sprouting at-every-single-corner-of-every-single-mall phenomenon doesn’t come by at other places (i’d like to think it’s the landscape), which also means, most of the time you’re REALLY spoilt for choices. Not to mention, we have tons of restaurant and food choices besides those.

Bingo, ticket to heaven: if u notice, We have contest for every god damn thing that’s worth having a contest for. -_-

Work: We work like there’s no tomorrow with hoping for a stable income at the end of every month.

I wish I could win extra bucks which I don’t have to slog my ass at my miserable job, and living the dream of earning to travel.

that was long. Wait, when would be my next trip……..hopefully this july, crossed fingers! :)

what a saturday..

literally dragged myself after work (yes, on a Saturday and was supposedly a public holiday) for dinner. pretty evident from the pictures that i’m worn out. swear i could fall asleep on the dining table. must be the work, i’m just saying. glad that food bring me wake alive again.

some play I had over dinner. The peekatures shall speak on behalf!

tryyyyyy.. drinking from my nose.. LOL